I was reading through some Townhall articles (www.townhall.com), and came across this gem from Phyllis Schlafly. If anybody know anything about Schlafly, she is a conservative columnist and political analyst and a constitutional attorney by trade. In addition to all of that, she is an outspoken critic of feminism and the feminist movement. As such, she receives the usual amount of vitriolic hatred that the political and ideological left spews on anyone who dares to disagree with their insane views of reality.
Her latest column, entitled “Why Women are Unhappy,” comments on a recent study from the National Bureau of Economic Research that “shows women’s happiness has measurably declined since 1970.” The authors of the study advance two possible theories to explain their findings: 1) Women’s liberation raised the expectations of women and unhappiness ensues when they fail “to have it all”; 2) Women are being overwhelmed by the pressures of being mothers in the workforce.
These are reasonable theories. I can certainly attest to the fact that the world makes a lot of promises that it fails to deliver on, why should it be any different for a woman than it is for a man? My theological worldview is such that we shouldn’t seek to find fulfillment in workforce, but in Jesus Christ. It’s not that work can’t be fulfilling or rewarding, but if we treat our careers as the “be-all-end-all” of life, we’ll be sorely disappointed. The second theory also makes a lot of sense — working 40+ hours a week in addition to trying to be mom and wife is demanding work; no doubt about it!
However, I think Schlafly has some better answers. She postulates, and I agree, that the timeline of the study coincides with the feminist movement in America, and that correlation is too striking to be a mere coincidence. She offers two further theories to explain the data: 1) The victimhood mentality that is fostered by feminism prevents women from ever being happy; 2) the unintended (or maybe intended) consequences of feminism which portrays men as superfluous and has led to many more instances of single-motherhood.
I’d like to offer my own theory which lines up with Schlafly’s thesis. The feminist movement has always sought to blur the distinction between men and women (which seems patently absurd). The differences between the sexes go far deeper than simply reproductive organs. God created men and women to compliment each other — what a man lacks in his physical/emotional/spiritual makeup a woman supplies with her physical/emotional/spiritual makeup, and vice versa. God created both men and women in his image (Genesis 1:27), which implies that neither one alone bears the complete image of God. That is why marriage is the union of man and woman into a one flesh union. When you convince a woman that she should be unhappy with her God-given role in his creation, it’s no wonder why this would ultimately lead to unhappiness on the part of women — you are telling her she shouldn’t be the person God created her to be!
Shlafly closes her article with the following:
Despite the false messages of the colleges and the media, most American women are smart enough to reject the label feminist, and only 20 percent of mothers say they want full-time work in the labor force. I suggest that women suffering from unhappiness should look into how women are treated in the rest of the world, and then maybe American women would realize they are the most fortunate people on earth.
Give the article a read, it’s very eye-opening!
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